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Adopt an Adaptability Attitude

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In a business environment experiencing constant turbulence—from both the advantages and downsides associated with the growing use of Artificial Intelligence powered software tools, to political struggles both domestic and international, to marketplace volatility—adaptability has become a prized leadership attribute. Leaders who can exhibit agility, resilience and foresight when yet another upheaval approaches, showing they can lead, and will not be derailed, by the slings and arrows of instability and uncertainty, stand out among their peers and competitors. Adaptability and its pillars—agility, forethought and resilience— have become the foundation for business transformation, innovation and leadership.

Do you consider yourself able to own the fundamentals of adaptability when the ground beneath your feet starts quaking and you’re wondering what your next move should be? Are you are able to steer the ship when big waves are crashing and causing your Freelance entity to rock and roll? Are you able to decipher when you should stay the course and when a pivot seems the better option? The practical definition of adaptability in a business sense may need some clarification. According to Marlo Lyons, an executive, team and career coach who hosts the Work Unscripted podcast, recommends that leaders prepare for 2026 and beyond should:

1) Model change-ready leadership. Among the many disruptive events that have occurred since the mid-20th century, unexpected shifts in national and global business conditions or new technology may appear and gain traction—like mobile phones (Nokia) and music (Walkman)—that impact the way we live and work. The adaptable leader will display behavior that transforms panic into calm as s/he interprets change and unpredictability as manageable challenges rather than a business threat. The adaptable leader shifts into crisis management mode and is prepared to make sound, data-driven decisions that support responsive strategy development while sharing information and rallying team spirit to maintain trust and productivity. Lyons guides her coaching and leadership development clients to “look through the lenses of growth, transformation and risk and align with that perspective and show that you’re thinking like a leader, shift your language from protecting the past to shaping the future.” She points out that responses such as “This is how we’ve always done it” demonstrate a lack of adaptability; it’s a weak excuse and should be avoided by those who aspire to function as an adaptable, effective leader. Try some version of these inquiries—“What might we gain if we reimagine this?” or “What would this look like if we started from scratch today?” Leadership is demonstrated by asking questions that encourage resourcefulness, creativity, strategic thinking, future-proofing and adaptability.

2) Take data-driven risks, be accountable for outcomes.  The adaptable leader possess the emotional intelligence to balance risk-taking, accountability and empathy when the team is struggling from change fatigue and maybe fear as well. Demonstrating empathy means helping people process the discomfort of change and the unknown while maintaining momentum and keeping both hands on the wheel. A leader who doesn’t attempt to gaslight the team and models transparency by acknowledging that change is often unsettling but reassures team members that s/he is there to help everyone maintain equilibrium while traveling through the unknown, able to meet important deadlines and deliver on mission-critical projects—is the prototype of an adaptable leader. Adaptable leaders create psychological safety and encourage performance consistency. The mission of an adaptable leader is to support your people through uncertainty while continuing to hold them to expectations—high-quality work and timely delivery. Empathy keeps stakeholders and team members engaged and accountability keeps everyone moving forward. Leaders who can demonstrate both will earn trust, model EQ and show the team, clients and competitors that you operate as an adaptable leader.

3) Listen, learn and grow. With the rise of AI, leadgen automation and the powerful algorithms of quantum computing, especially when paired with AI, continuous learning in the form of professional development, self-directed and expert-led, is no longer optional. Leaders aspiring to maintain their skill set understand how emerging technologies will impact their teams and the overall organization.

Adaptability and learning agility have become the foundation for business transformation, innovation, and leadership—in a word, excellence. Strengthening and consistently demonstrating your adaptability is an ongoing professional development seminar—and a required course for those who’d like to function as successful leaders in 2026 and beyond. Lyons says that adaptability is linked to the following:

  • Agility

Agility is the ability to not only pivot quickly when priorities shift, but to also bring others along with you—like your team and other stakeholders. It is not always necessary to blindly agree with every suggestion made by superiors or key stakeholders. Agile thinking is a core component of being forward-thinking and viewing change as an opportunity for innovation.

  • Resilience

Resilience means that you’re able to maintain your composure under pressure. Resilience is a characteristic that supports objective thinking, creativity and your personal best performance—while you’re in the midst of an unexpected turbulent event. Leaders who find a calm focus are prepared to manage the situation, starting with the ability to direct their composure to creating psychological safety for those on their team. Subduing fear and panic, as you know, brings both short and long-term benefits, most notably the ability to contribute and work at their personal best along with you, and thus enhancing productivity and loyalty to both you individually and the company. It will pay to be transparent and acknowledge, rather than attempt to deny, the difficulty of the market and the company’s financial challenges and directed team members to focus on whatever it is they can control. A leader’s continuing steadiness will provide clarity and consistency that allowed their team to keep delivering results amid constant disruption.

  • Foresight

Foresight separates reactive, seat-of-the-pants managers from visionary leaders. A prime differentiator between the two is the willingness to recognize that looking beyond whatever performance metrics are observed in the present to anticipate what tomorrow’s challenges could be. More than staying on top of current company performance and studying market data, as well as paying attention to what key competitors are up to—are there any noticeable pivots?—detecting and studying early signs of instability, or significant change, is how to avoid being blindsided. You always want to be positioned to assess potential remedies (or opportunity) and develop the right strategy in response.

But foresight that pertains to market shifts is just part of the equation. Leaders also need to have foresight in technologies innovation and understand the benefits and outcomes that explain the why and wherefor of leveraging them. Leaders who continuously research and map future capability needs, and upskill their teams to understand how and when to use emerging technologies, will demonstrate the strategic foresight and enterprise readiness that illustrate adaptable leadership.

Thanks for reading,

Kim

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Back to Basics: Best Bets for a Robust Year End

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When B2B marketing decision-makers were asked to name their most effective B2B marketing best practices, it was discovered that those who followed best practices recommended by their industry peers produced revenue and profit results for their organizations that showcased them and the companies for whom they work as leaders. By contrast, B2B marketers who did not consistently adhere to those highly recommended best practices finished the study period as laggards, who did not achieve desirable revenue and profit targets. B2B marketers who apparently had little faith in the power of those highly recommended marketing best practices produced lackluster revenue and profit results for their companies. B2B marketers whose organizations emerged as revenue and profit leaders not only produced higher revenue and profit growth but also achieved better client retention and growth of the company’s client roster.

Forrester, the global research and advisory company headquartered next door to Boston in Cambridge, MA, revealed in a 2025 marketing survey a sharp divide between B2B leaders and laggards based on responses from 1,060 marketing decision-makers. Forrester researchers compared a cohort of leading marketers, who consistently applied recommended marketing best practices, which ranged from cross-functional in-house collaborations to client-based personalized marketing strategies. Forrester researchers also identified a cohort of lagging marketers, who fell short where leading marketers and their companies excelled. The business outcomes were clear—leading marketers, who closely followed recognized marketing best practices, rewarded their organizations with significantly stronger revenue and profit metrics, plus a robust client list that was augmented by improved client retention.

As marketers and all business leaders and owners struggle to adapt to seismic changes that have rocked the global economy for 20+ years, and especially since the 2020-2022 pandemic era, the necessity of future-proofing their business entities has become obvious. The Forrester survey indicates that applying well-known marketing best practices requires is an essential component of a resilient business entity. Additional marketing best practices that nurture high-growth companies include the use of AI-powered tech solutions that among other key functions can be used to design personalized marketing campaigns and tactics and also facilitate alignment between marketing, sales and operations.

Maximize marketing

Marketing teams will do well to reacquaint themselves with marketing fundamentals to navigate this era of lengthened B2B sales cycles, economic instability marked by cautious spending habits, lay-offs at leading multinationals (e.g. Amazon and Starbucks) and rising B2B buyer expectations. Develop marketing campaigns that emphasize the unique sales proposition of your service or product. Provide opportunities for buyer engagement that answer questions, educate, build community and inspire brand loyalty. Furthermore, synchronize strategic and operational alignment with your sales and marketing activities—not an easy task since prospects are quite comfortable conducting digital research of your services or products (and also your competitors’) before seeking info from your team. The change in power dynamics has caused a disruption in the usual alignment between marketing and sales functions—and for 61% of B2B prospects, that’s how they like it, according to a 2024 survey conducted by Gartner Research.

  • Develop a buyer’s journey that provides appealing responses to the typical prospect’s initial curiosity and questions about your products and services by building a marketing/ sales funnel that anticipates needs. The number of touchpoints in a B2B buyer’s journey that results in a sale varies according to industry; as you build your company’s sales/marketing funnel, information generated by AI-powered client research is your best way to learn the information that prospects desire most, end-to-end.
  • Use AI-powered customer relations management to identify client groups that have a preference for certain of your services and/or products and use the intel to devise marketing campaigns and strategies to purposed to increase your market share.
  • Keep it simple by creating marketing messages that focus on user outcomes; include AI-identified personalization data at every client touchpoint to enhance the customer experience and encourage purchases.

Productivity over market expansion

Discovering a niche market that’s worth a gamble—that is, worth the resources you’d invest to develop it—is no doubt high on the wish-list of nearly all Freelance consultants and business owners. However, Forrester survey marketing leaders did not necessarily think the “grass is greener” and chose not to chase what might be a mirage.

Marketing leaders kept their feet firmly planted on the ground and instead maximized resources and advantages already in hand to deliver their revenue and profit targets. A big plus was that leaders worked for companies that invested in AI-powered tools and applied that resource to strategies they could expect to maximize productivity and drive business growth. Marketing leaders incorporated client insights, never lost sight of brand promises and used those benchmarks to strengthen their marketing messages. Those messages described and emphasized product and service solution outcomes, and went beyond merely listing product or service features, to help prospects envision precisely how the products or services would achieve important objectives (and make purchasing committee members look good).

This strategy can be depended on to encourage buyer engagement and trust, which boosts the likelihood of a purchase and, post-purchase, promotes client retention that grows revenue, profit and client lists. In fact, Forrester data showed that revenue generated by leading companies consisted mostly of existing, rather than new, clients. Market penetration means how well your product or service sells; increasing sales within the existing marketplace is much easier for Freelancers and small business owners than either creating new services or products or entering new markets.

  • Agile business strategies are a competitive advantage that help you adapt to changing business circumstances and maintain, or even grow, your client base, revenue and profit
  • Accurately identify your strongest competitors to learn how to more advantageously position your service or product in the marketplace—confirm your best customers and also refine your messages to obtain more selling opportunities and close gaps that inhibit sales
  • Muti-channel marketing optimizes communication with prospects. Create a presence on platforms that clients and prospects visit and trust to maximize engagement activities, broadcast marketing messages, build brand loyalty and create more purchasing opportunities
  • Collect and utilize first-party data to enhance personalization, engagement, loyalty and sales

AI-powered tech tools to enhance efficiency and outcomes

Employing AI-powered marketing automation can provide numerous operational efficiencies that enable deep-dive research that supports insightful data-driven decision-making that delivers the results you need. AI-powered software is the ticket to obtaining client insights that are timely and trustworthy.

  • AI-powered predictive analysis gives reliable feedback re: client behavior, helping you to devise personalized and effective marketing strategies and campaigns
  • Marketing campaign personalization is maximized and might include, e.g., dynamic email marketing that auto-adjusts in response to real-time client engagement metrics
  • Client segmentation supported by AI marketing allows you to consider an array of client characteristics—demographics, purchase history, industry, or content preferences, for example—to better understand purchase patterns and motivations
  • Chatbots, virtual assistants and/or autonomous AI agents that manage end-to-end client interactions, including problem resolution, order processing and appointment scheduling, can be made available to ensure that your company reliably provides 24/7 customer service that enhances the customer experience and boosts your brand reputation
  • Integrate AI marketing automation with customer relations management to synchronize marketing, sales and customer service functions

Maintain a client-centric focus

You’ve heard this before and apologies for repeating myself! It’s just that basic marketing best practices have demonstrated conclusively that they reliably produce the results B2B marketers need. The vast majority of best practices marketing strategies and tactics, while reconfigured to resonate with current technology and client priorities, concerns and habits, have not been made obsolete. Inbound marketing, outbound marketing, content marketing, guerilla marketing and social media marketing remain effective today, although integrating them with current advanced technology and maintaining a focus that keeps client goals, priorities and pain points at top of mind will yield the best outcomes.

  • Invite client feedback by inviting or initiating personal conversations, consistent and relevant social media posts created to encourage replies and/or creating a short survey that’s sent to clients you’ve worked with over the past four or five years, to learn what they perceive as your company’s strengths and weaknesses. It is instructive to obtain insight into how client needs and expectations evolve over time, so that you can use the info to improve your product-market fit, or also hear their thoughts on what competitors offer, or get the heads-up on shifting concerns or priorities
  • Identify your typical prospect’s most important goals, business drivers and pain points that trigger a need for your category of business solutions
  • Develop a client buyer persona, a profile that represents your ideal buyer. If you have more than one significant target client group, you are encouraged to develop a buyer persona for each. A detailed buyer persona helps you to objectively envision how to personalize your strategies and campaigns by developing timely, relevant and engaging content for each client segment.
  • Provide excellent end-to-end customer service, from onboading to after-sale support

Thanks for reading,

Kim

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What Freelancers Should Prioritize to Prevail in 2025

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Taking on 2025

Well, here we are! The trap door opened, we all fell in and like it or not, 2025 has us in its grip. When the inevitable obstacles and setbacks disrupt the flow you planned for your business venture, will you be caught in a whirling vortex of problems—or might you somehow regroup and win a skirmish or two? Better still, will Fortune smile and hand you a big victory this year? More than likely, however, 2025 will be a test of strength and strategy that feels like you’re in a triathlon (swim, bike, run); cross-training, so to speak, will be the best preparation to get your entity in shape to compete and win.

Political instability, compromised national borders, cybersecurity breaches, a metastasizing housing crisis, unrelenting armed conflicts boiling on three continents and wildfires burning in rural and metro areas of the U.S. are just a partial list of adversities troubling the global economy and working against your attempts to make an acceptable profit. The need to develop resilience—the ability to adapt and prevail over unexpected, often destabilizing, occurrences—will be a priority for Freelancers and other small business owners in 2025 (and probably beyond).

More than just surviving, resilience means developing the capability to respond well to unexpected, difficult, events. Resilience gives you the courage to accept sudden, radical change and realize that if it happens, you must take charge and quickly assess the new business conditions to figure out your next move and design a well-executed pivot that aligns your business with the new normal.

As we move into 2025, it’s clear that Freelancers and SMBs must be ready to adapt to a rapidly evolving landscape. By behaving proactively and building up resilience as a defense against economic uncertainty, you can position your entity to not only survive, but thrive, in the coming year.

Master the challenges

How will you prepare for the trends, challenges and opportunities that Freelancers could encounter in 2025? Your must-do list is unlikely to hold any surprises but nevertheless, the evolving economic and political circumstances, global and national, are bound to bring about a shift in the relevance and interpretation of What Matters Now. At the beginning of the year, Freelancers and SMBs will be wise to adopt a big-picture view of their entity and focus on how to remain viable over the next 12 months.

  • Review the pricing structure of products and services
  • Update marketing strategies
  • Identify potential new or niche markets
  • Analyze the company’s financial condition
  • Nurture client relationships
  • Revitalize networking, with goals of developing new relationships and finding new clients

Enhance your brand and be visible

A trusted brand is a valuable resource during times of uncertainty. Clients and prospects gravitate to Freelancers who inspire trust, based on their reputation (brand) and online presence. Beyond showcasing a well-presented portfolio, Freelancers should actively engage on platforms like LinkedIn, as well as join or host webinars, get invited to podcasts, teach workshops or classes related to your core professional expertise at local colleges, business associations, libraries, or other credible venues. It is also recommended that you author informative blog posts, as a guest blogger or on your own site, and share relevant industry insights on social media. In other words, establishing yourself as a thought leader will increase visibility, enhance your brand and attract high-value clients. Showcasing your most desirable skills and competencies can help attract potential clients more effectively.

Social media platforms, most notably LinkedIn, which was designed for professional networking, is an excellent tool for staying in touch with past clients, posting articles you’ve written and connecting with others in your industry. Staying active on the right platforms can increase your visibility and encourage client acquisition.

 Optimize workflow by investing in AI-powered tools

As you grow your client list, you may at times find yourself juggling multiple projects. It’s the realization of your goal, but feeling overwhelmed and stressed can result. You can more efficiently manage your projects, instead of the projects managing you, by using one (or more) online productivity tools to streamline your workflow. From video communication platforms like Microsoft Teams and Goto Meeting to project management platforms like Asana and ClickUp, the right online tools will help to expedite your workflow. Incidentally, familiarizing yourself with one or more popular software tools can make you appear more competent, and therefore more marketable, to those clients who, all things being equal, prefer working with Freelancers who are familiar with their company’s preferred in-house workflow platforms.

Moreover, Artificial Intelligence is revolutionizing how Freelancers work in every industry—graphic designers can use AI to generate initial concepts for marketing materials they’ve been hired to create; copywriters can identify the most popular keywords to include. Marketers can discover copywriting ideas and conduct content analyses, accountants and bookkeepers can automate routine tasks and direct their focus to high-value work that clients appreciate, such as strategic financial decision-making. Staying updated on the latest AI advancements and incorporating them into your workflow will ensure that you deliver faster and smarter solutions for your clients. You will be wise to do some research and incorporate AI into your business.

Learn and grow by seeking client feedback

To achieve success, Freelance professionals must use all available opportunities to build a healthy client list; part of the process is to invite post-project follow-up, that is, client feedback. Understanding what is or isn’t working for clients helps you evaluate in real time your business processes and ensure that they reflect client preferences. Feedback can also lead you to make updates to your services and/or products, or introduce new features, add-ons, or upgrades that clients will value and buy. Demonstrating your attentiveness to feedback supports your goal of building a robust and loyal client base, which is another strategy that promotes stability during uncertain economic times—you’ll have a cushion. As you know, providing the best product or service and presenting a client experience that distinguishes your organization from competitors is a critical component of long-term success.

With your final project invoice, make it a practice to send a short survey and invite the client to share his/her thoughts about the experience of working with you. Some remarks may make you wince, but uncensored feedback is the best way to become aware of weaknesses and, on the bright side, discover opportunities for further growth. You could even discover a niche market, if several clients let you know that they’d appreciate it if you’d provide an additional product or service.

Finally, not only will post-project feedback help you learn a great deal very quickly, but it’s also a great way to show clients that their satisfaction matters. Routinely inviting client feedback can also enhance your brand and make you more marketable.

Routinely request referrals

Politely asking a satisfied customer to provide referrals of those who may be interested in your products and/or services is good business. Referrals can be requested in different forms, from asking a former client to write a reference letter for you to casually inquiring whether a client has any contacts who could use your services or products. However you pose the question, take care to use proper tact and time your request wisely. Additionally, be specific about what you’re asking for and include an opt-out to avoid any potential awkwardness.

If you don’t feel comfortable asking for a referral, asking for an online review can be a great alternative. Whether it’s posted on the profile page of a social media site like LinkedIn or appears on a business ranking site such as Yelp or Trip Advisor, reviews are just as important for Freelancer professionals as they are for SMB owners.

Thanks for reading,

Kim

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Rapid Response: Being Agile

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Throughout history, human beings have learned that unexpected circumstances can bring instability to your life or your work and cause you to abandon plans you assumed were carved in stone and adapt to a new reality. Pragmatists are aware that disruption of one kind or another is inevitable and destined to visit your life if you live long enough.

Business owners and leaders, including Freelancers, recognize that in order to successfully navigate uncertainty, it’s possible—-but probably not easy—-to shift gears and make the necessary adjustments. There may be sleepless nights, but you can regain your footing. Agile strategies are the way to make it all happen.

You can trust agile strategies to become your go-to crisis response plan, the roadmap that guides you when the ground is shifting beneath your feet. An agile mindset and strategies will help you to rationally assess how the changed business conditions impact your organization, recognize factors in your organization that must change in response to the new scenario and figure out how to effectively operate within your new business landscape—-and in a timely fashion.

When the tide suddenly turns, agile strategies offer a useful alternative to the typical long-term planning outlook and instead encourage you to devote the upcoming 12-18 months to wrestling with the obstacles your company now faces and, ideally, discovering whatever unexpected opportunities the altered business environment presents. Below are practices to keep at top of mind as your new reality unfolds.

Always-on strategy

  • Adaptability in a rapidly changing environment. Freelancers and small business owners usually operate in dynamic environments. Often able to access only limited resources, these entrepreneurs need strategies that can support their evolving circumstances. Agile strategies enable flexibility. They allow business owners to adjust plans and actions in real time, based on customer feedback. Weekly strategy assessments are a useful way to monitor the success (or weakness) of interventions that were enacted and facilitate making refinements as needed.
  • Innovation and competitive advantage. Innovation is a driving force of business success. Agile strategies encourage creative thinking as they challenge the status quo and lead you and your team to explore new opportunities. By baking innovation into your strategies, you can discover or create competitive advantages and build a loyal and lucrative customer base.
  • Focus on high-value opportunities. Agile strategies help business owners focus on the most critical challenges and high-potential/ high-value opportunities. Your resources are not infinite and it’s imperative that you invest time and money into areas that can be expected to yield the greatest ROI. By identifying these key opportunities, you’ll maximize your chances of success.
  • Agility and speed in execution. Small and medium-sized businesses often have the advantage of being nimble and agile. Agile strategizing facilitates quick and objective decision-making, as it eliminates the tradition of lengthy planning processes and empowers teams to swiftly analyze, plan and execute. When your business climate changes, a timely response to customer priorities and preferences is essential.

Smarter strategy

As you acclimate to the practices of always-on strategizing, promoting creativity and innovation, engaging stakeholders and becoming intentional about your company’s strategic direction are among the benefits you will enjoy. You’ll discover the rewards of smarter strategy — AKA agile strategy. Clarity, coherence, focus, adaptability, innovation and action are the guiding principles. Invite agile strategies to become the engine that moves your organization forward.

  • Focus on the most critical challenges and highest-value opportunities.
  • Address challenges you expect to encounter in the next 12 to 18 months, instead of relying on the usual three-to five-year planning cycle.
  • Bake innovation into strategies and let go of benchmarking against your competitors. What they do may no longer apply. Instead, find the courage to think outside the box and always A/B test to confirm your assumptions.

Thanks for reading,

Kim

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Bouncing Back

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Can we at last peek out from under the covers and think about ending the shutdown and getting on with life and business? I certainly hope so! A few businesses are beginning to reopen, depending on local regulations, Apple, Microsoft and Panera Restaurants among them. The definition of reopening may be limited but a few small steps are being taken and more will join in soon.

In reality, Freelance consultants did not so much close down but either ceased or continued operations according to what clients were doing. Some of my clients temporarily closed because they could no longer function, as was the case with a well-known arts organization. Their twice-a-month live events abruptly ended and were last held in February.

Might local officials allow the group to reopen in September? When will their audience feel comfortable to return? Might the organization regain full capacity by Spring 2021?

Most of us intuitively know that a “new normal” is ahead of us and we don’t yet know what it will mean for business, whether our clients’ or our own. Resilience will be among the most valuable resources we Freelancers can bring to bear and we must call it up from within ourselves and learn how to apply it.

Honor your feelings

Are you frightened by the potential outcome of the shutdown, which is unprecedented in the history of the U.S. if not the world? Do you wonder if your Freelance entity will survive and how you’ll be able to support yourself if it collapses?

Being deeply concerned about the future viability of what you’ve built and its ability to sustain you in even the near term is only natural in light of what the national economy has been through. Whatever you’re feeling is normal for you. Acknowledge and own your emotions.

The only thing we cannot do is become paralyzed by fear. We are compelled to move forward because life demands it and our clients expect it. Constructive action is required and to fulfill expectations—-remember that meeting or exceeding expectations is the core of consulting—-Freelancers must tap into and magnify our ability to recover from setbacks.

Share your feelings with peers and mentors

Selectively share your worries and doubts, questions and potential answers, with those whom you trust and respect. Fear is a widely experienced emotion these days and you will find yourself in good company. Talking with others will make you feel supported and will give you the confidence to recognize and act on solutions and opportunities that will help you get back on your feet.

Get perspective

I grew up hearing my parents, aunts and uncles tell moving stories about the 50 year long polio epidemic which took a devastating toll on many countries. I heard about children being confined to the iron lung. I saw polio survivors, and be aware that the fatality rate far exceeded that of COVID-19 no matter how much the media plays it up, and the outcome was not pretty.

Polio nearly always severely crippled those that it did not kill. BTW, everyone went to work or school and the only social distancing that occurred was when my grandparents every so often would not allow my (eventual) parents and their siblings go to the movies or otherwise be in crowds.

I was myself in business during the 2009 Great Recession and I suffered. But failure was not an option. I found an under the radar, low wage part time job to help cash-flow and stayed on a rebuilding course.

I continued to post these columns weekly and found another site to post them on as well. In two years, my posts were featured on a national (and now international) digital publication whose target readers are female entrepreneurs and that gave me a nice title and a little money. I was resilient and you can do the same.

Prioritize

As I think about it, the most important thing that Freelancers can do to rebuild is to reestablish the trust, dependability and empathy that our clients need to know are present before they’re comfortable doing business with us again.

When a client who has recently reopened reaches out to you, rather than just trading emails why not suggest a meeting over lunch or morning coffee to set the stage for a real connection? Offer to meet them at a convenient restaurant, or arrange to bring in some food and drink (you’ll pick up the tab, of course).

Now you can discuss what it appears the new normal could mean for your client and his/ her relationship with their clients and how recalibrated expectations will impact what will be needed from you. Articulate your awareness of the fact that so much has changed thanks to the shutdown and your willingness to be creative, flexible and resourceful in formulating solutions that will position your client to regain, if not improve, market position.

Model resiliency in your thoughts and actions

Yesterday evening, I received an email from a woman who was born to a prosperous family, has a part-time grant sponsored job at an influential global not-for-profit organization and a good and talented husband. Yet, she sought me out for some apparently much-needed encouragement. What is so funny is that I’m just a Freelancer, unmarried and not well-connected, who’s trying to maintain middle class solvency in America. Still, this very affluent woman, who I love talking to BTW, calls me when she needs a little hand-holding.

In other words, I do what I can to bring resilience into my life and I’m willing to share the resource with friends and colleagues to help them sort things out when they need. On a regular basis I also practice self- replenishing rituals to keep my physical strength and positive mental energy flowing because burnout will make it all come crashing down. I encourage you to think about your own resilience, how you can strengthen and expand it and share it when necessary.

Thanks for reading,

Kim

Photograph: Panera restaurants are reopening for takeout only. This one is on Huntington Avenue near Symphony Hall.

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Surviving Rejection—Lemons to Lemonade

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“To be, or not to be—that is the question. Whether ’tis nobler in the mind to suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune, or to take arms against a sea of troubles and, by opposing, end them?”   Hamlet (William Shakespeare), Act III, Scene 1

Shakespeare understood so much about the problems and pleasures of life. I suppose that explains why, 400 years after he died (1564 – 1616), he remains the best-selling fiction author of all time, with an estimated four billion copies of his works sold (Wikipedia).  Shakespeare knew that life is about learning and sometimes the lessons presented to us are, or seem, harsh.

He understood that in order to build a satisfying life, we must learn to become ethical, wise and compassionate humans who are also equipped to take good care of ourselves and our families and manage to be good company along the way.  In his sonnets and plays, he showed us that resourcefulness and resilience, good judgment and good humor will help us to find the courage to face up to our faults and fears and learn how to overcome obstacles and disappointments.

Shakespeare’s lessons apply not only to the personal, but also to the professional zone of life.  Freelance consultants and business owners have many opportunities to show the world that we are capable leaders who can make our own way in the world, but there are the inevitable set-backs.  Acquiring a skill set that helps you move beyond rejection and defeat, as you make note of what you might have done differently, is the most effective way to bounce back from adversity.

Be objective

Realize that it was not you, the person, who has been rejected, but your business proposal.  There are numerous reasons that may cause a prospective business partner, investor, or client to turn you down in the final stage of evaluation, even if it seemed certain that you’d get the green light.  It is very painful to be unexpectedly denied and the incident can rock your self-confidence.  It is likely that once the facts were laid out and analyzed, the investor/ partner/ prospect realized that either s/he does not have the resources to participate, or that business strategies will require that they take a different direction and so your proposal must unfortunately be decline

Separate yourself from the proposal, look at what you might have been able to do better, if anything, and if you’ve found something lacking, and that could mean your choice of whom to do business with and not your proposal itself,  think about how to recognize a more promising prospect, or imagine how your intended might evaluate your proposal, so that you can correct obvious gaps or avoid potential misunderstandings.

Lessons learned

Depending on your comfort level with the prospect who rejected your proposal/ funding request/ partnership offer, you can ask why that was the case?  What is it that you are lacking, or what did you misunderstand? Maybe you can retool and make yourself a more viable candidate in the future.? Or maybe it is not a viable option for you after all and you finally accept that your efforts could be more generously rewarded elsewhere.

Without berating yourself, you can take stock of the new reality, even though it is not to your liking and devise a way to pick yourself up after disaster has laid you low.  You might choose to stay the course, with some adjustments (More specific talking points? A different target market?), or identify a new approach.  Maybe you can perform a beta test, or ask questions of a trusted colleague or client before you gamble on a roll-out.

Moving forward

If your proposals have been rejected rather regularly, consider that your intended target client group is not the best for you and that you might be well-advised to offer another product or service to a different cohort of clients, or pursue other types of business partners or investors.  If you are unable to get to yes with at least one or two clients, you must discover the problems and challenges that those in the target category really want to be resolved, regardless of what they admit to.  It could be so simple as the jargon used to describe either the problem or the proposed solution is not accurately expressed by one party or the other.

Disappointment is not easy to accept, but it is a part of life, part of the growing process.  How you handle yourself in the face of disappointment can help you to become resilient and resourceful and ultimately, better prepared to pursue and achieve success for your goals.

Thanks for reading,

Kim

Phaedra and Hippolytus, Pierre Narcisse Guerin (c. 1802)                                                   Image courtesy of Harvard Art Museums/ The Fogg Museum, Cambridge, MA

 

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Power Through Stress

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There are two types of people in this world—those who make things happen and those who allow things to happen to them.  Reader friend,  I know that you are the first type,  a mover & shaker take-charge Freelance professional who knows how to make good things happen.

But every once in a while,  I also know that the best-laid plans will not produce the expected outcome.  Other times, responsibilities and obligations pile on to a distressing level.  Such events might cause even a high-performing Freelance consultant to feel helpless and overwhelmed and as a result, stressed.

University of Florida psychologist Timothy Judge and colleagues encourage us to give ourselves a pep talk during challenging times, to promote the feeling that we are still able to exert control over the levers of our life and business (occasional slips of the grip notwithstanding), because his team’s research quite clearly indicates that those who feel confident in their abilities and in control of their lives are much better at managing stress and getting themselves positioned to capitalize on opportunities and dismantling or avoiding obstacles that block success.

Those who feel as if they are in control of their life and work can simultaneously feel very intense stress and anxiety from time to time.  However, their resilience equips them to manage those feelings differently from the passive types.  The powerful get busy when adversity strikes, while the passive are inclined to accept negative circumstances as inevitable and conclude that there is no recourse. They give up.

The ability to manage emotions and remain calm under intense pressure has a direct link to performance and the ability to perform well has a direct link to success.  Luck plays a role (let us not arrogantly deny that force of the universe),  but we are sometimes able to summon good luck into our lives.  It is often said that fortune favors the prepared.

As regards defeating or minimizing adversity,  realism makes us more resilient.  Prepare yourself for change by accepting that ups and downs are inevitable and the good times will not roll forever.  When billable hours are abundant and additional cash is available,  create short- and long-term savings and investment goals.  If nothing else, add more money to your retirement fund.  Whatever happens good or bad, money will be useful.  Think also of Plan B and even Plan C  alternatives that you could pivot into should unfortunate occurrences darken your door.

If you are presently in the clutches of challenging circumstances, you have my deepest sympathy.  Moreover I can empathize, because I’ve been there and I’m terrified of returning.  Respectfully,  I suggest that you take steps to shift your perspective to adopt the viewpoint of power and gain the confidence to take the reins. There may be aspects of your dilemma that are beyond your control,  but you are capable of controlling your response to it.  Long-term wallowing in self-pity is not useful.

Stress and anxiety can put us into a choke-hold.  To slip out, take action to build up your body’s hormonal stress-busters,  endorphins and serotonin,  with some regular exercise.  Any kind will do,  so long as you partake three or four times each week for a minimum of 30 minutes.  Please see my post from December 22, 2015. https://freelancetheconsultantsdiary.wordpress.com/2015/12/22/exercise-leadership-in-the-new-year

Once you peel away a few layers of stress and anxiety,  you’ll be able to apply your renewed confidence to identifying corrective strategies.  It may take a while to engineer your repackaging or pivot,  but the time to begin the transformation  from passive to powerful is now.

Thanks for reading,

Kim