Relationships are the beating heart of humanity and a factor that, for better or worse, impact your fortunes in life. In the professional sector, the process of networking presents opportunities to meet business colleagues with whom you might cultivate (mutually) productive relationships. Your willingness to meet and greet colleagues you encounter in various settings can open the door to relationships that bring tangible benefits to your business or career. Wherever conversations and handshakes can take place, even the sidewalk in front of the Apple store where a crowd of hopefuls waits to buy the next cool device, can be a networking opportunity.

Whether by intention or by chance, you never know how or when you’ll meet someone who will bring a positive impact to your life or business. Networking, wherever it occurs, is a low-risk gamble that can deliver a sizeable pay-off—information or insights that sharpen your business acumen, an introduction to a prospective client—or maybe finding a great tennis partner. Whatever happens during your adventures in networking, the benefits you receive will be better if you prepare in advance for the experience.

Develop objectives

As noted, networking has the potential to have a powerful influence on your business and for this reason, a well-planned marketing strategy will not overlook this resource. Smart Freelancers take networking seriously; you get the ball rolling by first strategically evaluating the potential value of the networking events you might attend. In other words, it’s important to understand why you think it’s a good idea to attend certain events? “To network” is an incomplete answer. What do you want to happen?

Well—maybe you recognize the name of the speaker and you like the topic? You could pick up some useful information and hope to reconnect with an acquaintance or two whom you haven’t seen since the pandemic. You’ll be off to a good start with those two objectives. Now, consider if there is some information or insights your colleagues, if they show up, might share with you? Could it be that you’re thinking of offering a new service, or you’ve been investigating the potential of a niche market and one of your buddies could give you some feedback? Or maybe the program speaker can address your questions with you privately, after the talk? Now you’re on your way!

Networking requires a certain amount of time and money and you owe it to yourself to create a rational business case for your networking “why” by developing objectives that can be tied to tangible business outcomes or support one or more objectives. Networking needs an agenda, like touching base with a colleague or two because your recollection of their experience and relationships makes you suspect that either or both could give you some actionable input.

Be sure to check out the RSVP list, which the event organizer may have posted on the website, and confirm that your buddies—or someone else you’d like to meet—plans to attend. Whether or not you see familiar names on the guest list, there are basic questions that can serve as your networking agenda and almost guarantee a successful outcome, however modest. 1.) Meet a client. 2.) Get a referral. 3.) Get information. More potential agenda items are listed below.

• Customer acquisition: Are you looking for new clients? Learn how clearly and concisely describe the profile of your ideal customer to colleagues you meet and connect with.
• Strategic collaborations: Do you need a business partner or investor? Or maybe you’d like to find a Freelance videographer to join you on a project every now and again?
• Investor: If your company is thriving and scaling in the form of growth or expansion is on your mind, you may be on the lookout for a knowledgeable and trustworthy investor who is willing to help you fund the plans for your enterprise.
• Research & feedback: Is there a new product or service you’d like to test the waters with? Obtaining direct, first-person feedback from potential customers or industry peers provides useful, actionable, insights.

Attend the right networking events

Not all B2B networking events will be appropriate for your industry or business objectives. The “best” events depend entirely on what you’d like to make happen. You wouldn’t wear a tuxedo to a casual coffee meetup and similarly, you shouldn’t attend an emerging technology summit when you’d like to meet HVAC (heating, ventilation, air conditioning) specialists.

When investigating your networking possibilities, consider the event’s audience and how connecting with those who attend will be beneficial for you and therefore worth the time and money you’ll invest. Start with your objectives, then match them to the right event and develop a reasonable agenda that puts you on a path to a worthwhile networking outcome. Don’t forget to check the Small Business Expo’s Event Calendar for upcoming networking opportunities designed for for small business owners in your area.

Pre-meeting prep

Once you’ve chosen your event, devise your onsite strategy, from the initial meeting with colleagues to conversations that can segue into “What brings you here and what do you do?” questions to graciously inviting follow-up, if a post-event conversation appears to be mutually agreeable. If one or more colleagues are on the RSVP list, consider how your target contacts might be able to share info, give feedback, make a referral, or make an introduction on your behalf. You can rehearse how you might adroitly make the ask.

• Research attendees: Most nationally known professional associations, industry expos and skills-building conferences post attendee lists on the program website; meeting organizers recognize the selling power of knowing who is on the RSVP list.
• Upgrade elevator pitch: Meeting colleagues while networking is similar to an interview with a prospective client. In both instances, you must concisely and powerfully articulate your value proposition; as you describe your solution will help your a prospect to resolve a pain point or achieve an important goal. Distill your pitch until you can effectively deliver it in 20-30 seconds.
• Note-taking app: Immediately after a conversation with a colleague, make it fast and easy to document key details of the conversation and future actions. A note-taking app will allow you to efficiently capture and organize your thoughts expressed as notes, drawings, images, or URL links and store it in the cloud for you to access on your devices. Expedite personalized follow-up by recording names, company, industry or expertise, discussion topic and agreed-upon future actions. Adding details (e.g., “mentioned s/he swims regularly”) will enable you to personalize follow-up communication and enhance the quality of your CRM data.

Positive first impression

The goal while meeting and greeting colleagues and facilitating potential relationship-building opportunities that might lead to a business collaboration or partnership of some kind is authenticity, so be your personal best self. Extend your hand and greet others with friendly eye contact, a warm smile and a firm handshake. On the no-fly list are: Card spamming—avoid the promiscuous distribution of your business cards, which is very annoying. Instead, exchange cards after a meaningful conversation. Monologues—networking and all conversations are a two-way street. Ask questions and listen more than you talk to obtain useful info and insights. Hard sell—no one wants to be sold to immediately. Focus instead on building rapport and understanding needs first, so you’ll learn where, how, or if your solution can address the contact’s goal or pain point. See below for behaviors that will enhance and optimize your networking fortunes.

• Active listening: This is your superpower. Ask thoughtful questions and truly listen to the answers. People remember how you make them feel, not just what you say. This helps you gather “insights” into their needs.
• The “Give before you get” principle: Offer value upfront. Can you share a relevant industry insight? Make an introduction? Recommend a helpful resource? These actions build trust and reciprocity and promote strong relationships.
• Quality over quantity: Focus on having a few meaningful conversations that may lead to business opportunities or actionable insights, rather than dozens of superficial gab fests.
• Open body language: Smile, maintain eye contact and avoid crossed arms. Approachability is paramount.
• Graceful exits: When a conversation reaches a natural end, have a polite way to disengage. “It was a pleasure speaking with you, I see someone I need to catch before s/he leaves,” or “I’d love to follow-up on this topic later. Enjoy the rest of the event!”

After the handshake: nurturing business relationships

The business cards handed to you won’t bring a client or generate revenue on their own. This post-event phase is critical for moving contacts from casual acquaintances to valuable allies who may be willing and able to directly impact your client list and annual revenue.

Nurturing your valuable relationships, whether new of long-standing, is a continuous process. Step up and offer info, insights, an introduction or other help you can give to those with whom you are already acquainted, the event speaker, or others whom you meet during your networking adventure. You may be able to help in the moment but if necessary, consider inviting follow-up that will extend the relationship-building into the future. When you hand your card to someone, make it clear that your style of networking is a two-way street.

• CRM for contact management: Do not neglect to add new contacts, with detailed notes, to memorialize in your customer relations management tool the conversations you were so lucky to have. Now you’ll be able to smoothly pick up the thread when conversations continue. Schedule reminders for follow-ups.
• Social media engagement: Don’t just connect on LinkedIn; engage with their content. Comment thoughtfully on their posts, share relevant articles and diplomatically keep yourself at top-of-mind.
• Share valuable content: If you discover an article, report, or event that you suspect would interest a contact, share it with them. Be selective with what you share as you position yourself as a helpful resource.
• Make strategic introductions: If you know two people who could benefit from connecting, offer to introduce them. A good introduction is a powerful way to add value to your network.

The 48-hour follow-up formula

The real work begins after the networking event. The clock starts ticking as you leave the event. The business cards handed to you won’t bring any clients nor generate any revenue until you get busy and keep the momentum going. The post-event phase is critical for moving contacts from casual acquaintances to valuable allies who may be positioned to directly impact your client list and annual revenue. Speed and a welcoming, personalized outreach approach are your action items.

Your urgent post-networking activity is to continue the conversation; furthermore, you must avoid stumbling into a sales pitch and also kill any signs of desperation. Your follow-up contact will be most effective when your tone is friendly and relaxed, but also purposeful—you have an objective and moving things forward is imperative. If it is you who will help a colleague further his/her objective, be sure to follow-through with whatever you committed to in a timely fashion. You can reach out by telephone, but a videoconference will be more effective and the sooner you can have a face2face meeting, so much the better.

1. Personalized message: You’ll demonstrate your appreciation and authenticity to those colleagues that you’ve agreed to follow-up with when you reference specific details from the conversation. A good way to personalize your outreach is to say something along the lines of “It was great discussing (the topic) with you at (event name) yesterday. Your insights on (the worthwhile wisdom) were particularly interesting.”
2. Provide immediate value: If you referenced an article that your new colleague found interesting, attach it to your follow-up message. If you made a strategic introduction on behalf of your new colleague, mention that you were delighted to connect the two of them. If you gave feedback on an initiative or some other business question that your colleague has been exploring, reference that interaction and invite him/her to reach out if there is another question or clarification that would be helpful. Providing value reinforces “give before you get” relationship-building behavior that builds trust and increases the likelihood that your favor will be appreciated and returned.
3. Propose next steps : You have an objective or two in mind and an action plan is needed to move things forward. In your message, suggest an in-person coffee meeting if geography allows or a follow-up videoconference call. “I’d love to continue our conversation about (proposed follow-up topic). Would you be open to a 30-minute face2face or video call next week?”
4. Multi-channel outreach: Your first outreach method should be either email or text, whichever seems most appropriate for your new colleague. Next, since it usually doesn’t seem too pushy to invite new contacts to connect on LinkedIn send a request. Keep personalization going by composing a short invitation note that references where you met, as opposed to merely clicking on the prefab LinkedIn invite. Moreover, if your new colleague posts interesting content on LinkedIn (or other platform), become a follower and, when you have something relevant to add, respond with a comment and not just a like, to demonstrate that you’re paying attention and understand the new colleague’s value as well.

Thanks for reading,

Kim

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