Hallelujah! A prospect you’ve courted for quite some time has finally agreed to consider using you for a project. You’ve been invited to meet with a couple of members of the project team. You’re preparing for the meeting like a seasoned pro and that includes asking questions that show the prospective client’s priorities matter to you. You’ll ask about the ideal outcomes for the project, how the project fits in with long-term company goals and how a successful project is expected to promote brand awareness and grow the customer base. You’ll ask who will make the decision as to the vendor and when that decision will be made.

You know the right questions will ensure that you understand what the project is expected to achieve and confirm your ability to produce the deliverables. The right questions also signal to the prospect that you intend to meet or exceed expectations. But after you’ve inquired about the project specs, remember to ask another question, an essential question that is sometimes neglected—-the amount of money that’s been earmarked for the project budget. Without ascertaining this vital piece of information, you cannot move forward. To think that you can write a credible proposal without first discussing at least a ballpark price is unfair to both yourself and the prospect. Do you shop without looking at the price tags? Of course not.

The budget is a critical component of the project specs and there must be transparency. Without knowing how much money can be made available, neither you nor the prospect will know if either can afford to do the project until the proposal has been sent and that is too late. When the money talk is omitted from the project specs discussion, decision-makers and stakeholders waste time.

Money talks are intimidating for many. You’re thrilled to be invited to meet with a prospect and you want to make a sale, you want to get to yes. However, if you’re going to be a successful Freelance consultant, you must learn how to discuss money. The money talk brings on the big reveal—-can the prospect afford to work with you (and the flip side, can you afford to work with this company)?

As you know, attitudes about money are an emotional issue and you won’t know how the prospect will respond until you go there. Some prospects are comfortable being up-front and transparent about the budget. Others are not that evolved—- they jolly well know their budget, but they don’t want to tell you. Oh, well!

Nevertheless, you must face up to your money talk and tiptoe through whatever emotional baggage your prospect may have. Here are three direct but polite money talk icebreakers that are guaranteed to make it comfortable for your soon-to-be client to be candid about the budget before you write the proposal. If you’ve done it right, you and the prospect will first discuss the pertinent matters, including budget, and your proposal will confirm in writing what the parties have agreed to.

1. Is your budget in the hundreds or the thousands?

This question quickly helps you understand the resources that your prospect is willing and able to invest in the project. If the response in the thousands, you can further clarify by asking if an amount that seems reasonable would be in the thousands or tens of thousands?

2. Are you thinking $500, $5,000, or $50,000? 

This question encourages the prospect to verbalize a spending range for the project. Remember, these are not your actual prices; these are numbers that make it easier and less intimidating for the client to express what s/he can afford.

3. Would an amount somewhere between $7,000 and $10,000 be affordable?

Suggesting to the prospect a range that’s close to the higher end of what you’d likely charge for that type of project is another good tactic. This question lets you know what type of services the prospect can afford and will make it clear to both of you if it’s worth moving forward with you as the project vendor. Fish or cut bait.

Finally, if you choose to give a verbal estimate, say the price, or the range, and be quiet. Silence gives your prospect an opportunity to consider the price and respond. Silence also communicates that you have confidence in your price. The worst thing you can do is announce your price and then offer to negotiate it down before the prospect has had a chance to say yes or no. Resist the urge to say, “Will that work for you?” Or “We can negotiate that if it’s too much!”

The best lesson you can learn as a Freelance consulting professional is that your time and talent are worth money and you deserve to exclusively work with clients who value what you bring to the table. Those who who attempt to wheedle or bully you into accepting a price that does not reflect your estimation of the value of your services is best avoided. Have the courage and the self-respect to walk away, as disappointing as it is. There’s no point in wasting it on a proposal for a client who can’t afford you.

Having money conversations is not an art–it just takes confidence and practice.

Thanks for reading,

Kim

Image: Anand Purohit/Getty Images. An Indian lady is shopping and is ready to pay in rupees.